Well fellas you guys were right.
I did some sketchy jack stand stacking magic, and got the front end unloaded, and got the bearings out. They indeed had dents in the races. Barely visible, but there. But my God, let me tell you how seized the head nuts were....
So I took the forks back out, and got the top triple tree clamp/plate off, no big deal. 2 ugga duggas with the impact made easy work on the outer stem nut. This is where everything got so much worse.
I got to those two spanner nuts stacked on top of the seal and bearing, and I have some little spanners that fit perfect. Well come to find out after a bunch of heat, penetrating oil, hammering, a snapped spanner wrench, and a
cut off spanner nut that the nuts and washer were like.... rusted or corroded to the main stem shaft, and there was gunk in there causing them to cross thread as they were coming off. After I snapped my wrench hammering the nut loose, I just got the carbide cutter out on the Dremel and ground most of the way through the nut and it came off easily.
How awful. Only other thing I've had this much misfortune unscrewing is front sprocket nuts. Yeesh.
But yeah, I got those off and ruined the nuts, washer, and rubber seal in the process. I'll just buy new ones.
What a day. Also closed up the steering damper with the 15wt oil. It is indeed quite resistive now, and perfectly smooth after letting it sit tilted in my vice all night. Sealed it off perfectly, and its all cleaned up and ready to go back on when the time comes.
Well I guess it is time to order bearings, and maybe a half decent press tool. Any recommendations on bearing press tools for head bearings? The outer race is 55mm diameter and the inner race is 30mm.
Guess I should decide between All Balls and OEM bearings too.
EDIT: Ordered All Balls tapered roller steering stem kit, as well as their front and rear wheel bearing sets, and some vortex grips. Exciting!
Thanks for reading folks.
-Mike