I need an opinion on girl psychology so I figured this would be the best place to put it; I'll try to keep short and to the point.
I've been seeing a friend from work for the last few weeks. When I first began at my current job I didn't really feel anything for her. It really started out as a friendly "date" but I feel that we have grown very close; and has gotten to the point were we can comfortably talk about anything between us. I just haven't gotten the courage to tell her how I feel about her.
Early this week she asked me what plans I had for this weekend; because she was going to be by herself and had no plans. I told her that a friend of mine had recently bought a house and he was holding a small party Saturday afternoon. I invited her, but she's a very shy girl when it comes to meeting new ppl, specially alot of new ppl; so she kindly refused. I told her that I'll just leave the party early and we can go out to watch a movie or something: and so, she was fine with that idea.
Wednesday, she came up to me and completely surprised me by saying that she would rather prepare diner for me on Saturday rather than go out to the movies. She even asked me what she should prepare for me; I told her to surprise me, lol. To me, this is very special; no girl has ever done this for me. I would like to use this opportunity to tell her how I feel and hopefully she has the same idea.
So whats the problem you may ask? That thing is that she is a very friendly and sweet girl and I would be dammed if she has ever had an evil thought, lol.
My question is; would a girl be so friendly as to prepare diner just for a guy friend? Is she just seeing me as a very close friend and I'm just misinterpreting the situation?
I'm being super cautious about this only because we work together (not in the same department) and I wouldn't want to make a move on her only to end up feeling awkward when we go to work.
However, no matter what I cant keep these feelings about her cooped up inside me forever. What do you girls think?