Here's the deal.... my ex has been calling (we broke up almost a year ago) the last few days and i haven't been answering cause it makes me think about her and it kills me inside. Well i answered one of the calls just to see why she kept calling me i thought maybe something was wrong. Talked to her again the next day, again the next day and basically i'm getting the impression (could be wrong) she wants to try to work things out. I will always love this girl we were together for 4 1/2 years. I quit telling her i loved her a while ago and yesterday right before we hung up she said she loved me. Shits fuckin with my head. We did get back together for a few weeks in march i think then we kinda just quit talking?
Also yesterday i saw this chick on myspace a while back thought she was kinda cute messaged her and yesterday she hit me up on aol we talked for a few and i had to leave so i gave her my number. I figured she would never call. Well she txt messaged me last night, i told her to give me a call today.
What i'm confused about is wether i should give my ex another chance. I don't want to get hurt again. I kinda want to see what the other girl has to offer too, haven't really talked to her much but she seems really cool. I'm not a fan of meeting people over the internet but my life's been nuts lately and i thought i would give it a shot. I think if i start talking to the other chick (even as friends) the ex might get pissed and i really don't want to ruin the opportunity to get back with her on the same note not sure what i really want.
take it slow, and date around., IF she is fucking with you you do not want to have your heartbroken again. Make her earn your trust again. In the mean time check out what this other chick has to offer.
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Hey take it from me. They never change and if they do, it's only for a short time. It obviously wasn't meant to be. Move along and avoid having the same shit happen to you again.
Ok i think i forgot alot of the story with the EX. It was my fault we broke up... i was a beligerant drunk (was drunk ALL day long as soon as i got home from worki was drinking). I treated her like shit and she's giving me a chance again so thats the point of view i'm coming from. I quit drinking now 8 months and still counting I have met other girls she's dated other guys. All i know is everynight i go to sleep i think about her and how i fucked it all up.
I see where you guys are coming from about the whole not going backwards thing... i think the time spent after the breakup for me was would clasify as the time i spent getting my life together a little. Since we broke up i've got my own place and quit drinking.
i guess time will tell huh? I'll see if that other girl calls today, i'm supposed to hang out with my ex tonight.
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...i'm supposed to hang out with my ex tonight.
Keep it simple and at least do the "let's be friends" thing for awhile (think months, not days) before jumping back in...let her get to know the "new you."
Thanks jlogixxgirl.... its been rough. I basically have to relearn how to have fun. I was so used to drinking that its hard for me to do anything i get bored really fast and i really only think about drinking. I saw my ex at work today.... damn i miss her she's so damn hott. here's a pic she's on the right , thats what she was for halloween.
I guess i'll just see how everything goes. i talked to the other girl today for like 3 hours on aol at work... she seems cool asfuck like one of those chicks that you can joke around with and she's very laid back and easy going but so is the ex... and the ex is prolly gonna buy a bike in the spring (if she can save enough).
Nothing wrong with dating on the internet these daze. I've met some extraordinary people that way.
Definitely, that's how I met my girlfriend. We now live together and I have no intentions of letting her go anywhere.
OTOH, the dude's ex is hot. I'd bang her and see where that goes, just don't get all locked in unless you're ready for that. Make sure you're in love with her, and not just the idea of being in love. They are two very different things that can appear similar.
Thanks jlogixxgirl.... its been rough. I basically have to relearn how to have fun. I was so used to drinking that its hard for me to do anything i get bored really fast and i really only think about drinking. I saw my ex at work today.... damn i miss her she's so damn hott. here's a pic she's on the right , thats what she was for halloween.
I guess i'll just see how everything goes. i talked to the other girl today for like 3 hours on aol at work... she seems cool asfuck like one of those chicks that you can joke around with and she's very laid back and easy going but so is the ex... and the ex is prolly gonna buy a bike in the spring (if she can save enough).
Thanks jlogixxgirl.... its been rough. I basically have to relearn how to have fun. I was so used to drinking that its hard for me to do anything i get bored really fast and i really only think about drinking. I saw my ex at work today.... damn i miss her she's so damn hott. here's a pic she's on the right , thats what she was for halloween.
I guess i'll just see how everything goes. i talked to the other girl today for like 3 hours on aol at work... she seems cool asfuck like one of those chicks that you can joke around with and she's very laid back and easy going but so is the ex... and the ex is prolly gonna buy a bike in the spring (if she can save enough).
shes not hot
Pic of you.....please so we can judge you too...It is only fair
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Thanks jlogixxgirl.... its been rough. I basically have to relearn how to have fun. I was so used to drinking that its hard for me to do anything i get bored really fast and i really only think about drinking. I saw my ex at work today.... damn i miss her she's so damn hott. here's a pic she's on the right , thats what she was for halloween.
I guess i'll just see how everything goes. i talked to the other girl today for like 3 hours on aol at work... she seems cool asfuck like one of those chicks that you can joke around with and she's very laid back and easy going but so is the ex... and the ex is prolly gonna buy a bike in the spring (if she can save enough).
shes not hot
Pic of you.....please so we can judge you too...It is only fair
Thanks jlogixxgirl.... its been rough. I basically have to relearn how to have fun. I was so used to drinking that its hard for me to do anything i get bored really fast and i really only think about drinking. I saw my ex at work today.... damn i miss her she's so damn hott. here's a pic she's on the right , thats what she was for halloween.
I guess i'll just see how everything goes. i talked to the other girl today for like 3 hours on aol at work... she seems cool asfuck like one of those chicks that you can joke around with and she's very laid back and easy going but so is the ex... and the ex is prolly gonna buy a bike in the spring (if she can save enough).
shes not hot
Pic of you.....please so we can judge you too...It is only fair
Ex's are ex's for a reason. Move on - go forward with your life not backwards.
Nothing wrong with dating on the internet these daze. I've met some extraordinary people that way. 
Good luck!
Keep it simple and at least do the "let's be friends" thing for awhile (think months, not days) before jumping back in...let her get to know the "new you."
(if she can save enough).
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