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: It's Not About Income. It's About HABITS.


Dorkfish
04-12-2011, 10:20 AM
I might have mentioned somewhere in the past that I'm a pilot. I don't bring it up thinking it might impress anyone, but it's important for the context of this story. We spend considerable time talking about this and that in the cockpit and pilots are notorious for coming up with convoluted investment and tax-avoidance schemes. Usually guys bring it up with an air of pride in the cleverness of their plans. I don't say a word unless they ask my opinion then they get clubbed like a baby seal.

I recently flew with a guy who is a prime example of where I'm trying to keep the younger guys on this board from going. He's 37 and makes approximately $150,000 a year. When I was younger and making $25k I couldn't imagine making that kind of money. All money problems would end. Right? As it turns out, money problems only end - ever - if you handle money correctly. Read on....

He mentioned he has about 8 acres 45 minutes outside of (insert big city here). He recently entered the U.S. Forestry Service's forestry management program. The Forestry people do soil samples and whatnot and decide you can plant "X" number of "Y" kinds of trees. Doing so allowed him to get his property designated as "agricultural" and thereby get a massive property tax break from the state. So far, so good. But you need equipment to tend 8 acres. And a place to put the equipment. Like a barn/workshop. Turns out the Service will finance the building of a barn and all you have to do is lease it back from them. This is where things start getting out of control. In his mind, it all revolved around the property tax break. But in my mind, it was immediately obvious as he told the story that the financing charges in the lease were going to eat his tax break like a tea-time snack. He's sending 100-cent dollars to the leasing financier to get back 75-cent dollars from the Tax Man. To cap it all off, I asked him what the trees will be worth at harvest time and he wasn't sure. I asked him what the status of the land and barn was at the time of future sale of the property. He didn't know. It gets worse....

Why doesn't a guy making $150,000 a year have 25-30k for a barn? Let's take a look. He drives a leased, late-model Maxima. He will soon upgrade to another leased vehicle for more $$$ - an Infiniti M35. At some point in this story, I remembered that we had flown together in the past because he then told me of his wife's loaded late-model Suburban. I remember, because he was about to buy it - on payments of course - when we last flew together and I gently tried to talk him out of it by asking him if he didn't already have enough payments. Apparently, he decided he didn't. His house is of unknown size, but on 8 acres where he is, he's probably paying a pretty healthy house payment. Which brings us to....

The pool! At some point I got a text from my wife saying our water bill had been about one-fifth the size we were expecting because we had filled up our new-construction pool. "Huh..." I said, as I read it. He asked what was up, so I told him about my new pool and detached 2-car garage project (which I don't normally tell people about because it can seem like bragging). That starts a conversation about the pool project he wants to do. Guess how he wants to pay for it? Well, what kind of debt haven't we seen him use yet? Bingo!! 401k loan!! Oh, my word, the understanding - the core belief - of this guy in the area of money was that if you want something, you get it now, and you finance it through whatever tool you can. He believes that because he never has any spare money. He never has any spare money because it all goes out in payments for previous stuff he has bought. He bought the previous stuff on payments because he didn't have any spare money then either. See the problem? What we see here is a banker's wildest dreams come true. A man that makes plenty of money, but whose first inclination is to finance everything in his world. Can you see that at some point this MUST stop? He already knew that 401k loans are a really, really Bad Thing. You unplug a good investment, the loan is due in full in 60 days if you get fired, and you have to pay it back with after-tax money. This is getting long, so let's just focus on....

"But I"m paying myself the interest!". This is the marketing tripe around 401k loans and he was parroting it dutifully. If anyone wants to see the actual math, I'll put it in another thread. Suffice it to say, his $65k pool project was going to require him to earn $80+k to do. I could not make him understand that no money was created in the "pay yourself interest" scenario - it's ALL your money. We ended the conversation with him slipping the back-of-the-envelope calculations in his bag to be reviewed/refuted later.

This is why I preach to the youngsters to get a handle on money early. NOW. Right now. If you don't, you'll just keep getting raises as you progress professionally and you'll never get anywhere financially. So many times I hear that "the poor" can't afford to pay cash for things. This is exactly upside down. Low income individuals need to develop sound, disciplined money handling habits and making payments on things is the exact opposite of that. Habitually making payments on things ensures you never get ahead - even when you start making $150k.

This is a good guy. A very good guy - funny, smart, hard working, dedicated family man. But his understanding of money handling embodied the marketing message of the Debt Industry. So he'll NEVER be able to just buy a car.

Sabba
04-12-2011, 10:50 AM
I completey agree..when it comes to money: "Easy come, easy go".

wuzup76020
04-12-2011, 11:04 AM
the more you make the more you spend.
I grew up in a low middle income family untill i was 10 or 11 (net income between both parents was under 60K). My dad got his break around that time and things skyrocketed. (250K just from my dads side) we went from trailer park to lake front property with boats and toys. It took my dad a good 5 or 6 years (talked with him later) to really get what he had under control. Ive learned alot from both scenarios. Even now (24 years old) i have no student loans because i worked my ass off for school and paid in cash while i have other friends with close to 60K in debt :ohmy. just blows my mind sometimes.

Dorkfish
04-18-2011, 07:59 AM
the more you make the more you spend.
I grew up in a low middle income family untill i was 10 or 11 (net income between both parents was under 60K). My dad got his break around that time and things skyrocketed. (250K just from my dads side) we went from trailer park to lake front property with boats and toys. It took my dad a good 5 or 6 years (talked with him later) to really get what he had under control. Ive learned alot from both scenarios. Even now (24 years old) i have no student loans because i worked my ass off for school and paid in cash while i have other friends with close to 60K in debt :ohmy. just blows my mind sometimes.

I hope people read and re-read this post - there's a bunch of lessons in there:
1. Don't buy a mobile home. Ever. They go down in value faster than a car. You can't pour out payments fast enough to break even, so you're better off renting. Don't look down on folks who live in them, but don't imitate them either.
2. Unless you're living someplace really expensive, $60k is plenty of money to live comfortably.....IF you have control of the money. But most people do not have control of their income. It's all pledged to someone else - GMAC, Capital One, Rent-A-Center, Suzuki Credit...
3. A raise won't fix this. At least not until you fix your understanding of money. Once you have $60k under control, you know instantaneously what to do with $250k. If you don't, you simply end up with a bunch of more expensive payments and no more wealth than you had before. This is true no matter how big or small the income numbers.
4. The children of such an example come in only two flavors - those who do exactly the same types of stuff; and those who see the fail and turn to a radically different paradigm.

Luckily, wuzup is in the second category. Well done.

Wag
04-18-2011, 09:37 AM
Spectacular post, Dorkfish. Absolutely true in every respect.

It's bad enough that people pay too much for things in the first place, they also add more to the cost by financing it.

There is an old saying that my wife and I live by which says, "Those who understand interest collect it. Those who don't understand interest pay it."

Both her parents and my parents had no understanding of how to manage money and my father died penniless, leaving my mother with nothing more than a pittance from Social Security. My in-laws are penniless in their old age and have to live in my brother-in-law's spare bedroom.

How sad is that that when you're in your retirement, your so-called "golden years" and every possession you own can be stuffed (easily) into a small U-Haul trailer that you tow behind a small Civic?

Pathetic.

That isn't to say that life's success is measured entirely by material wealth and possessions but a total lack of anything is a clear indication of it's complete and utter failure.

The bottom line as I see it is that if you avoid paying interest, you ALWAYS end up with more, no matter what.

--Wag--

Wally Beast
04-18-2011, 09:56 AM
Excellent post Dorkfish :cheers

I have a friend that works in the used car market. He is the used car manager at one of the largest dealerships in the US. It's fascinating to hear him talk about his customers.

1) Dealerships make their money on used cars. They will make $7-8k on a $20k used car between the mark-up and the finance charges. And they are given incentives to lie, cheat, and steal from you.

2) Even if they are choosing to finance a car, people will go into a dealership without shopping for the best rate. They get the dealership's finance dept. to choose their loan for them and they don't even realize the dealerships is going to make 1.5-2 points off of that transaction.

3) Ohio (like many states now) makes everyone read and sign a paper that tells them how much they will finance over the life of their loan. Even that won't stop people from signing up for double digit interest rates that will end up costing nearly half the principal on the car (a liability itself) over 6 years.

4) The interest they'll pay over the 60-72 month loan isn't only lost money, it's lost potential revenue. They could have been using that money over the 60-72 months to work for them by collecting interest. $15k loan @ 8% will cost around $3300 in interest for which they could put to work so the real loss is somewhere around $7100 ($3300 in paid interest + $3800 in lost revenue).

si 9
08-10-2011, 06:54 AM
WOW! - I just read this post. Good stuff Dorkfish.
I was bought up by parents who did know the value of a dollar and only borrow money when, and absolutely neccesary.
I did not end up with great employment - but I owned my first house by age 29-30. I have never owned a credit card, never had hp - heck, i've never had a layby.
My parents instilled - if you cannot pay for it, right now - today from your own money, you cannot afford it...was simple advice but has done me very well.

Today - many of my relatives and friends come to me to help them out, i've helped three family members declare bankruptcy - yes, i've helped out financially, but you can only do it for so long. But the entire reasons these people are in the shit - is completely because of those reasons written above...they should teach money handling / advertising / compound interest rules in friggin pre school !!!

I've just broken up with the missus and i've been back playing in the sharemarket and takign a few risks that she would of never allowed...so far...so good...but I know the risks.

Cheers for the posts guys.
Have just read Wags links as well in other posts...the more I read the more intrigued i get.

I might undertake a few courses in sharemarket investing...and have a "play".

Cheers
Si.