When do I call?

Alright here's the story:

I met a girl who works at Starbucks yesterday morning (at Starbucks). I got her number and took her to dinner last night. We had a great time. She mentioned a book to me. I got back to my hotel and checked my voicemail. Around the same time she was telling about this book, a friend called me and recommended it to me. I thought that was bizarre so I should call her and tell her about it. So I did (maybe like a dumbass). But I had to leave a message. She didn't call back but it was 1030 at night and she had to be at Starbucks at 5am.

I went through the drive through at said Starbucks this morning and she was on the speaker. I ordered my coffee (she thinks I order it weird) and then she realized it was me and was really a sweetheart. I got to the window to pay and she wasn't working the window but she came over and gave me a big smile and waved and all her girlfriend workers were smiling at me like she told them all about me.

That was this morning. Our date was great. I took her to a nice restaurant and rode a tram up a mountain and it was romantic, blah, blah, blah. We stood and admired the view in each other's arms and she gave me two (no tongue) kisses goodnight. All in all, all the signals were very positive. However, I think this chick is way out of my league and I'm not sure what I should do.

Do I call her today or wait? Also, I work in this city and live in another. I get on a plane tomorrow at 7am to go home. I won't see her for a month unless she comes to one of my races in two weeks (which is another topic altogether). Needless to say, I'm head over heels for this girl. What do I do? I don't want to look desparate, because I'm not. But I also don't want her to expect a call and me not call and then I screw everything up.

Or am I just being a dork about the whole thing, lol? Do I call her today? Tomorrow? Just let her call me, even if it's a few days?

hey bro its simple..... put it in her butt!:D :lol lmao no just kidding if you just met her you dont want to scare her away by telling her that you are head over heels for her also she might feel like your smuthering her if you call her all the time. why dont you invite her to come to your city or pay for her to go to the races.;)

i almost slipped a disk . OMG ROFL Pain. no girl is outta yer league, be assertive. :)

call her and be like " hey im leaving tomorrow, and i really enjoyed hanging out with you. i would really like to keep in touch from time to time. i really like who you are and i enjoy myself every time im with you. i may have some free time here an there so if your interested maybe we can meet up my way? ...kinda just go from there. the best way to get to girls is to be honest on how you feel and what you want. just dont wear your heart on your sleeves:cheers

When do I call?

Alright here's the story:

I met a girl who works at Starbucks yesterday morning (at Starbucks). I got her number and took her to dinner last night. We had a great time. She mentioned a book to me. I got back to my hotel and checked my voicemail. Around the same time she was telling about this book, a friend called me and recommended it to me. I thought that was bizarre so I should call her and tell her about it. So I did (maybe like a dumbass). But I had to leave a message. She didn't call back but it was 1030 at night and she had to be at Starbucks at 5am.

I went through the drive through at said Starbucks this morning and she was on the speaker. I ordered my coffee (she thinks I order it weird) and then she realized it was me and was really a sweetheart. I got to the window to pay and she wasn't working the window but she came over and gave me a big smile and waved and all her girlfriend workers were smiling at me like she told them all about me.

That was this morning. Our date was great. I took her to a nice restaurant and rode a tram up a mountain and it was romantic, blah, blah, blah. We stood and admired the view in each other's arms and she gave me two (no tongue) kisses goodnight. All in all, all the signals were very positive. However, I think this chick is way out of my league and I'm not sure what I should do.

Do I call her today or wait? Also, I work in this city and live in another. I get on a plane tomorrow at 7am to go home. I won't see her for a month unless she comes to one of my races in two weeks (which is another topic altogether). Needless to say, I'm head over heels for this girl. What do I do? I don't want to look desparate, because I'm not. But I also don't want her to expect a call and me not call and then I screw everything up.

Or am I just being a dork about the whole thing, lol? Do I call her today? Tomorrow? Just let her call me, even if it's a few days?

If you have to ask you need to call Dr. Phill....LMAO

JUST TELL HER EXACTLY WHAT YOU JUST TOLD US! SIMPLE AS THAT...If you scare her away...well then she ain't meant to be. and like gilb said....invite her to your race but try not to fuck up too much on the track! :) good luck

Sorry for being in here ladies. I just came in to see what the ladies were talking about. Didn't plan on saying anything, but I noticed a shit load of guys that that post in girls section. This is like a Dr. Phil program:D But where better to get womens advice than from the gixxer women

Dude.... you're thinking too much about it. Here's what I do that works 90% of the time.... everytime.

Instead of calling.... you text.

And let her do most of the calling. Occasionally just give her a text out of the blue; and half the time she'll text back and the other half she'll call a few mins later.

Girls are weird, if they think you're desperate or if you make it obvious you're really into her..... she'll get turned off. You have to make it obvious enough that you're interested but don't show too much of it through your actions (ie. calling too much, showing up at her work too much, asking her to go out too much).

Just kinda be partially in the picture.... and wait for her to make the move. Make the girl work for you.... girls like a challenge and she'll actually enjoy it.